Alternative realities
...being parkinsed is a mind game [which] is why I have chosen Hamlet's opening lines of the fourth soliloquy in Shakespeare's Hamlet (Act 3, Scene 1) in my blog title."To be, or not to be: that is the question.Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to is sufferThe slings and arrows of outrageous fortune,Or to take arms against a sea of troubles,And by opposing end them?"
Realistically, I am able "to take arms against a sea of troubles" but unable to "end them". So, my way of fighting being parkinsed is being on a drug-free regime. But, am I able to reverse its effects? I'm still not sure: depressing for those of us affected by Parkinson's Disease (PD).
I've selected this topic - "Facing Parkinson's late or early" - because after retiring in 2017, I decided to focus on analysing my PD rather than take a post-retirement contract at the university. So, in 2018, I detached myself from forty-years of specialisation, and, I'm sometimes depressed with this reality. But, when I google myself to remind me of my family and career, then I am "grateful" this late onset of PD.
Ok, dear reader, let's examine two performers with different periods of PD onset: some of Billy Connolly's way of life and his PD diagnosis and some of Michael J. Fox's. Connolly was diagnosed in 2013, in his early seventies, while Fox was diagnosed in 1991, in his late twenties.
Billy Connolly's life
Billy Connolly was born in 1942 in Glasgow, Scotland and has been a stand-up comedian since the 1970s. His fame in the UK came in 1975 when British talk-show host, Michael Parkinson, interviewed young Connolly on his show, "Parkinson". During that show, Connolly told a bike joke about a man whose wife had died and had been buried in his backyard. This joke drew the UK public's attention to how far Connolly was willing to go, his peculiar brand of humour and what his audiences could expect.
In his autobiography "Windswept & Interesting", Connolly describes his unstable and difficult childhood. He was orphaned at four when his mother abandoned him and his sister, while their father was overseas, in the army. He was abused by family, unable to conform at school, had little adult support and few role models. After leaving high school, Connolly trained as an apprentice welder at a Glasgow shipyard after which there was a stint in the army. Later in life there were many performances (here's an excerpt) as a stand-up comedian as well as playing a banjo in a two-man band called the "Humblebums".
This range of experiences is likely to have influenced his view of life, the content of his shows and maybe his talent as a comedian. He appeared to be constantly improvising during his shows and loving it. Like most stand-up comedians, he had the ability to start a story and the mental capacity to weave a multitude of alternative angles into that story while telling it.About five decades of performing in the UK, then Australasia and finally settling in the USA, has nurtured the Connolly joy. Being "windswept and interesting" has become his trademark and attracted audiences all over the world. This excess of joy in his life includes his regularly dancing in the nude. Sadly, his living on the edge was enveloped by an extended period of alcoholism which he cured during his second marriage. The following seven-minute video of tributes captures his joy of being on stage.
Besides his success at stand-up comedy, Connolly has also starred in a few memorable movies, some of which are: Indecent Proposal (1993); The Last Samurai (2003); Gulliver's Travel (2010); Brave (2012); Quartet (2012)(my favourite); and What we did on our Holiday (2014).
As a result of his 2013 diagnosis of PD, Connolly left the stage in 2018. In a Sky News interview he said he had stopped because he needed a fully functioning brain for comedy and PD had "made his brain work differently". The onset of PD also meant giving up his love of handwriting.
In my opinion, one unintended consequence of a PD diagnosis late in life, can be either to force one into facing that new reality head-on or pretend to ignore it. Another consequence of such a diagnosis is to modify one's life by seeking alternative remedies.
Sir Billy Connolly received a knighthood in 2017 and is now living in Florida, USA, celebrating his Scottish heritage as well as delving into art and painting. Naturally, he owns property in Scotland, too.
Michael J. Fox's life
Peers and critics of actors in movies and sitcoms have acknowledged the Fox festival we have been privileged to experience by awarding Michael J. Fox the following awards: 5 Primetime Emmy (US Television) Awards; 2 Golden Globe (US Film & Television) Awards; 2 Screen Actors Guild (US Movie & Television) Awards; and 1 Grammy (US Music industry) Award.
NEWSFLASH The award that will be worth noting is the honorary Oscar award to be presented to Fox in November 2022 by the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences. He'll receive the Jean Hershold Humanitarian award in recognition for his work as an actor as well as for founding the Michael J. Fox Foundation for PD research, established in 2000, nine years after his own PD diagnosis. To date, his foundation has raised over $800 million towards PD research!
PD onset realities
"I went to see a Parkinson's specialist in New York...It was a huge shock and quite frightening...the symptoms came crashing in...I had trouble getting out of chairs...Eventually the scariness diminished...it really wasn't as bad as I had imagined...There was no pain involved...You just carry it around as another wee burden."
Fox's 11th book, "No time like the Future" is a memoir specifically tracing that part of his life living with PD. In his book are many graphic details, raw accounts of his episodes of falling and associated traumas as a result of his being parkinsed. Below is an excerpt of my Fox book review.
"...the reader is invited to share his roller-coaster, life-changing journey. From his PD and accompanying rehabilitation to removal of a tumour on his spine (and rehab) to a terrible fall that shatters his arm (and introduces more rehab). For me, these are the most revealing as they involve detailed accounts of the impact of PD and how one's work and home environment can become an obstacle course!" (Post 20: "PD outfoxed:...").
It is clear that, for as long as possible, Sir Billy Connolly will not allow late onset PD to take over his life. In an interview on his 80th birthday he said that he needed help to get dressed. Other than that he looked and sounded fine.
Fox's fabulous career was cut short by his young onset PD diagnosis in 1991, announced to the public in 1999. He was driven and highly motivated, dedicating his life to helping others with PD by establishing his Foundation in 2000.
So, dear reader, alternative realities due to Parkinson's are probably influenced by the onset period, age and severity of the accompanying PD symptoms. Stay strong. Do try to be positive, even for a small part of your day. Till next time...